"A Happy Couple"

I think back to a couple of mouth's ago. When I had a boyfriend that was just useing me. I was talking to a friend one day and she was telling me that I did not need him. Than I tought ya that is right I dont need him. He is just someone in my life that I did not need to have around in my life. I though that I could have any one that I want . But I dont need him in my life. I kown that I can find that one. who would take me for me. And will not try to change me. He would appet me with diabetes and will not try to forget about me haveing diabetes. He would help me out if i was low. He would see to it that I was ok all the time. And he would not see me as on one just cause he friend thinks I am weird just cause I have diabetes. We would still be a couple that would go out on dates and would still go place's, But I being a diabetic would not stop us from going places just cause I  have diabetes that would not stop us what so ever. Everone would stil kown us as a happy couple. And we would be a happy couple.

I wrote this cause of the boyfriend that just brock-up with me thought e-mail. So I thought I would write "A Happy Couple"

good for you Jaimie...you deserve the best!

Thanks Jennifer...my friend's think so too 

Not exactly a classy thing to break up via text/email...if you care about someone and it's just not working out, then one should do it face to face.

That being said, sorry you had to go through that, but you're probably better off without him. Best of luck in your future endeavors into love!

Oh darlin' I'm sorry you are going through this right now :( 

Let me let you in on a little secret - because you have type 1 diabetes, you are more mature than the other 14 year olds you know.  You had to grow up a little quicker than they did.  So right now, even though you know in your heart that having diabetes doesn't make you wierd - it's going to take some of the other kids time to catch up to speed.

Don't get angry with them.  And don't take it out on yourself.  You just keep thinking about that one day in the future when you will be a part of that "happy couple."  It will happen for you - just be patient.

But remember, you can only be part of a truly "happy couple" if you are first a "happy Jaimie" on your own.

Good Luck sweet pea.

Thanks guy's that is just what I need to hear from people like me. I also have one called "him" that 2 of my frien's help me write it after we were up intell 11:00pm at night talking and than that night i thought I would write one call "him" cause I could not stop thinking about "him" and I kown beforeI find that one guy for me I have to be the "happy Jaimie" 1st.

Jaimie, I don't think Sarah could have said it any better so I'm not going to even try.  Guys usually don't like to ask alot of questions about what it's like to have this disease but one day you will find that one guy who will have a genuine interest and concern about the fact that you have diabetes and he won't make you feel bad or different because of it.  The same goes for friends in general.  Hang in there and have fun. You have many years ahead of you before you should even think about trying to settled down with any one certain guy.  When the time is right you'll find him and until then have fun meeting the rest of them.

My friend's have told me the same thing over and over again that I will find I one guy that was meant for me.

Don't worry about him Jamie! One day you will find the right guy...the one that was meant for you. Let me put it like this... Girls are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. Boys don't want to reach for the good apples because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead they get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy. So they apples at the top think something is wrong with them when in fact they are amazing. They just have to wait for the right boy, the one who will risk everything, who's brave enough to climb all the way up to the top of the tree. :D


Thanks Brittany that is so true

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Thanks Brittany that is so true


Yepp...so don't you worry about it. :D