Nicole, I'm so sorry to hear you lost your first pregnancy. How are you doing with the loss? Sending baby dust that you have a positive preg test soon!!
I had a c-sec, and I was okay with the experience because I was "allowed" to try a vaginal birth first, but it didn't work out. I would have been annoyed if I wasn't allowed to try b/c of the D w/o any other reason. But, after 2 days of labor with the baby's head getting stuck, I was just happy to have him out, lol!!
I suspect there are more c sections for Moms w/ D b/c the doctors tend to induce you at 38 or 39 weeks before you've naturally gone into labor. The induction doesn't always "take" (as in my case). But, at this point, I'm just happy to have my son here and rarely think about how he came out. (: