I am a divorced parent and our daughter has type 1. My situation is that I have a fiance with two kids and we live together. My ex-wife has remarried but there are no other children. When Covid began to escalate in March we jointly decided to have our daughter stay with my Ex-wife as there were less people in that household and therefor less chance of transmission. Six months on and I have not hugged my child or spent any real time with her other than socially distanced get togethers in parks etc. This is really starting to take an emotional toll on me as pre-covid I spent 3-4 days a week with her. My fiance and I are fortunate enough to have a vacation home. I have approached my ex-wife about just me and my daughter spending 2-4 weeks their by ourselves in the vacation home to mitigate the risk of transmission however my ex-wife is not in favor of it.
I am wondering if there are any other parents out there in a similar situation and how they are dealing with split custody, or if anyone has any advice on how I can safely spend quality time with my child?