So, besides the fact everyone is impacted by this new edition to our life the big D. My marriage is going south. I handle hard times by myself and cry to my mother or alone always. I know this is a time I should confide in him and be strong together, but that is not the case now or before. I am a Ms. Independent pants and stubborn as he would say. But I like the word determined better:) My husband and myself can not seem to agree at all lately. He thinks our son should be treated no different and he is just like everyone else and that I am babying him. Oh and one of my favorite things is that I am making things hard on myself that I need to simplify. I will only say this once HE IS RIGHT. Our son is just like everyone else and yes I am babying him, and yes simplifying would be ideal. BUT, I think I should treat him different b/c he is going thru something different and if he wants to be babied then WHY NOT he is upset too. Simplify? would not make me feel good about myself and my son likes me being with him. He may be milking it and that is ok with me. He should lean on his mommy. I can not imagine my child is thinking. Only what I think as a parent and as an adult and it is very hard for me to comprehend. I know things will eventually get back to as much normalcy as can be, but until then I say "Cut the kid some slack!!!"
Has anyone else hand complications with their significant other?