Ok ladies, I need your support and advice now...I talked to my Endo a month or so ago about getting pregnant and reminded him of my past, and he said as long as I got my A1C down below a 7 I'd be good. Now today my husband and I went to my OBGYN and he had the complete opposite to say. He was very pessimistic about me getting pregnant. He is a great doctor and I know he sides more on the cautious side. He said he sees what happens to pregnant women with T1 diabetes and he also sees what happens to T1's that didn't take care of themselves. He made me think about how me getting pregnant and the more I try to have the sooner the onset of dialysis can come, blindness, and many other complications. It freaks me out!! I don't want to die, or lose my eye sight, or be dependent upon a machine to live. BUUTTTT I WANT A BABY OR TWO!!! I see that there are plenty of women who have normal pregnancies and babies. But what am I NOT seeing??? I don't like being told I can't do something, but I also know I did this to myself. I am so depressed. I'm lost. I don't know what I should do!!?
Can anyone help me out?